1.   How Do I Deal with His Insecurity

2.   Does She not Trust me? Is She too Needy?

3.   How Do I Take Time Alone In a Relationship?

4.   How Do I Get Over So Much Hurt?

5.   Did I Cause Him to Break Up with Me?

6.   Is my Relationship Getting Better or Just Bad?

7.   Jealous Boyfriend?

8.   How do I deal with my EX?

9.   He Already Wants to have Sex!

10. I Started Dating This Guy and  ...

11. Dating Someone You Always Fight With

12. Will he Change with Time?  New!

13. How do I get over my own Insecurity?  New!

14. He won't open up to me, what do I do?  New!

15. We live together, but he won’t get a ring!  New!

16. How do we stop Fighting?  New!

17. How To Break Up   New!

18. No Sex On the First Date   New!

19. I Don't Love Him Anymore   New!

20. His Parents Hate Me   New!

21. I Slapped Him   New!

22. I Hate His Ex   New!

23. Did He Cheat?   New!

24. I Love My Best Friend   New!

25. How Do I Get Over Him?   New!

26. His Other Girlfriends   New!

27. I Cheated On Her   New!

28. I Go For The Wrong Guys   New!

29. I Want Affection   New!

30. Am I a Slut?   New!

31. Nervous On Blind Dates   New!

32. I Am Too Shy   New!

33. I Want To Break Them Up   New!

34. She Always Talks About Her Ex   New!

35. Marriage After High School   New!

36. Should I Tell Her That He Cheated?   New!

37. New at Dating   New!

38. He wants me to get new breasts   New!

39. He Is Always Angry With Me   New!

40. I Want a New Girlfriend   New!

41. Boring Relationship   New!

42. He Ignores Me   New!

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Lauren from Columbus, OH asks:

You will tell by the time you finish reading this that I am deeply troubled with my relationship. My man is in a band and I am a nanny . . . talk about different lifestyles. For a long time now, we have been living together and I pay for about 75% of the financial responsibilities, sometimes leaving no spend $ for myself. I have been pleading with him to do more romantic things like dinner, vacation, or a simple gesture other than just being home early enough to physically lay beside me. He claims that these things aren’t possible without money and he gets defensive. He says that once he’s successful things will change. Am I asking too much? How long do I wait for things to change?

REALationship.com expert team

Lauren, waiting for things to change or pleading for them to change will not make them, or him, change. Change in a relationship and in partner is possible, but you have to know what to do, and that has nothing to do with pleading or waiting. On the other hand, it also has nothing to do with manipulation. Start by deciding what you want and making sure that you have it as much as possible by providing it for yourself.

  -RET